The art of
Finding and keeping love through 12 powerful lessons
Do you desire to be in a loving and harmonious relationship?
ONE THAT YOU HAVE ALWAYS DREAMT OF?
It's not impossible! Great relationships do exist.
The #1 misconception that people have is that a relationship cannot be defined as good if there is conflict.
Let me tell you right now, that's "fairyland" thinking.
All healthy relationships have disagreements. The difference is that both parties know how to navigate the conflict and stress that arises and turn it into learning moments for the relationship.
And so, this course is designed to help you as such.
Communicating with your partner with with more ease
Knowing exactly what you want and don't want and feeling confident enough to state it
Being able to quickly identify the patterns that you repeat and feeling empowered to change them
Fewer arguments. More enlightened discussions.
Moving forward with someone as a "whole" instead of wondering if this person is for you.
How does it feel? It feels great right?
MOST OF US HOWEVER DON'T KNOW HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICT IN RELATIONSHIPS.
Why should we? We were never trained to do so.
What we do instead, is focus on the other person and things outside our control.
*We try to get the other person to treat us better
*We demand that the person changes
*We withdraw our self and give the silent treatment
*We retaliate with anger
* We manipulate feelings and words to get what we want.
And what happens is that it leaves both parties feeling drained and frustrated, with no real clarity on a way forward.
WE THEREFORE NEED TO EMPOWER OURSELF TO NOT FEEL LIKE A VICTIM
and get instead to the root of what's happening.
Not holding others accountable for OUR suffering no matter how manipulative they are
Understanding OUR role in conflicts.
Moving beyond a blame mindset is the key to understand why you feel a certain way towards people who don't treat you the way you expect.
I'm a psychologist based in the Netherlands, a self-empowerment trainer and a best-selling co-author.
I designed this program based on the principles of Couples & Family Therapy and Cognitive Behaviour principles.
In my personal consult, I realised that 80% of clients request to work on relationship type problems. The common thread in my clients was that they were constantly blaming their partner for struggles in the relationship instead of taking the time to analyse why they themselves had a reaction, where the reaction was coming from, or how to navigate the complex dynamics of an argument.
I'm a firm believer in working on yourself.
Maybe you think your partner needs to be on this course as well for effective change. However, it is my belief that change often begins with one person who can cause a ripple effect. The only person you will ever be emotionally responsible for in your life is YOU.
If you don't know your shortcomings, and where they came from, then you are preparing yourself for much heartache and confusion in relationships, and I mean ALL relationsships; whether it's with family, friends, co-workers, your boss etc.
So let's work together. I look forward to seeing you on the program.
The art of
Starting May 31st, 2019
Registration closes May 25th, 2019
This program will help you to understand yourself and your partner in the context of relationship conflicts. You are guaranteed to walk away from this training with a mind shift in how to navigate conflict/ arguments. In fact, on the last day of the training, if you have not learnt anything, you will be fully refunded and that's because I am fully confident in this.
Now, let's get to the details.
There are 12 core buckets, that means we'll be meeting once (for 1 hr) per week, online, for 3 months. I'll add an extra meeting in there for questions and clarifications (a total of 13 meetings). Schedule can be seen below.
This course comes with a WORKBOOK.
"Take home" exercises, as well as taking part in group discussions, are mandatory
Because places on the program are limited, mini interviews are conducted to join this course.
EVERY FRIDAY AT 12 noon CEST
May 31st, June 7th, June 14th, June 21st, June 28th, July 5th, July 12th, July 19th, July 26th, Aug 2nd, Aug 9th, Aug 16th, Aug 23rd
SOURCES OF YOUR LEARNT MECHANISMS
PLACING LEARNT MECHANISMS IN CONTEXT OF WHO YOU ARE NOW
ANCHOR POINTS FOR LETTING GO OF LEARNT MECHANISMS
FACING THE PARTNER IN THE MIRROR/ CO-DEPENDANCY CONCEPTS
CALCULATING EXPECTATIONS VS. REALITY USING COGNITIVE PRINCIPLES
EMOTIONAL AWARENESS IN THE FACE OF FIRE
TECHNIQUES FOR DEALING WITH WOUNDED SELF
VIEWING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH NEW LENS
CURRENT RELATIONSHIP ASSOCIATIONS
VALUES IN RELATIONSHIPS
CONCEPT OF THE CONFLICT MAP
PATTERNS IN YOUR CONFLICT MANAGEMENT
Benefits when you join this program
Feel at home by being part of a small group of people working on the same issues, and sharing their expeirences.
Work with me for a period of 3 months
Join meetings from the comfort of your home
All our meetings will be recorded so if you miss a meeting, you have a chance to catch up.
this means that you get to look forward to understanding yourself better, how you've been possibly sabotaging your previous (or current) relationships and finally, how to use this understanding of yourself in navigating the world of conflict management in relationships.
Join this program
AT AN INTRODUCTORY PRICE OF ONLY
Which equates to 13 sessions (3 months) at $9.62 per session.
That's incredibly low per session, don't you think?
Prices do not include VAT, which is determined based on the user's billing country. The final price will be shown, before payment is completed.
Let me know that you're interested in the program. I'll send you a form to fill out and a date for a short 10-minute interview.
We'll chat about your previous experiences, and why you are interested in this program. We'll also talk about your commitment level at this point of joining.
I'll send you a secure PayPal link to pay for the course. Once you have paid, you will receive an email confirmation that you are booked for the course, as well as the direct link to the call on the scheduled date.
You'll be added to a private group where you can access information, workbooks, and other free reading material relating to this program. And then, all you need to do is show up =)
Registration closes on May 25th, 2019
I want to always make my programs available to those who are financially bound because I believe transforming ourselves in not just for those who can afford.
On every program, I offer two scholarship places through an application process.
The application requires you to be honest and transparent about your situation.
In certain cases, we may decide that a trade of services might be good.
To get started on the application, please contact me.