GREAT RELATIONSHIPS

navigating disagreemets and stress by moving beyond the blame game.

The art of 

Do you desire to be in a loving and harmonious relationship?

ONE THAT YOU HAVE ALWAYS DREAMT OF?

It's not impossible!  Great relationships do exist.

The #1 misconception that people have is that a relationship cannot be defined as good if there is conflict. 

Let me tell you right now, that's "fairyland" thinking.

All healthy relationships have disagreements. The difference is that both parties know how to navigate the conflict and stress that arises and turn it into learning moments for the relationship.

And so, this course is designed to help you as such.

IMAGINE

Communicating with your partner with with more ease

Knowing exactly what you want and don't want and feeling confident enough to state it

Being able to quickly identify the patterns that you  repeat and feeling empowered to change them

Fewer arguments. More enlightened discussions.

Moving forward with someone as a "whole" instead of wondering if this person is for you.

How does it feel? It feels great right?

MOST OF US HOWEVER DON'T KNOW HOW TO MANAGE CONFLICT IN RELATIONSHIPS.

Why should we? We were never trained to do so.

What we do instead, is focus on the other person and things outside our control.

*We try to get the other person to treat us better 

*We demand that the person changes 

*We withdraw our self and give the silent treatment

*We retaliate with anger

* We manipulate feelings and words to get what we want. 

 

And what happens is that it leaves both parties feeling drained and frustrated, with no real clarity on a way forward.

Hi,

I'm NEETA

WE THEREFORE NEED TO EMPOWER OURSELF TO NOT FEEL LIKE A VICTIM 

and get instead to the root of what's happening.

That means: 

Not holding others accountable for OUR suffering no matter how manipulative they are

and

Understanding OUR role in conflicts.

Moving beyond a blame mindset is the key to understand why you feel a certain way towards people who don't treat you the way you expect.

 

  I'm a psychologist based in the Netherlands,  a self-empowerment trainer and a best-selling co-author.

 

I designed this program based on the principles of Couples & Family Therapy and Cognitive Behaviour principles.  

In my personal consult, I realised that 80% of clients request to work on relationship type problems. The common thread in my clients was that they were constantly blaming their partner for struggles in the relationship instead of taking the time to analyse why they themselves had a reaction, where the reaction was coming from, or how to navigate the complex dynamics of an argument.

 I'm a firm believer in working on yourself.

Maybe you think your partner needs to be on this course as well for effective change. However, it is my belief that change often begins with one person who can cause a ripple effect. The only person you will ever be emotionally responsible for in your life is YOU.

 

If you don't know your shortcomings, and where they came from, then you are preparing yourself for much heartache and confusion in relationships, and I mean ALL relationsships; whether it's with family, friends, co-workers, your boss etc. 

So let's work together. I look forward to seeing you on the program.

GREAT RELATIONSHIPS

The art of 

 Starting May 31st, 2019

Registration closes May 25th, 2019 

This program will help you to understand yourself and your partner in the context of relationship conflicts. You are guaranteed to walk away from this training with a mind shift in how to navigate conflict/ arguments. In fact, on the last day of the training, if you have not learnt anything, you will be fully refunded and that's because I am fully confident in this. 

Now, let's get to the details.

There are 12 core buckets, that means we'll be meeting once (for 1 hr) per week, online, for 3 months. I'll add an extra meeting in there for questions and clarifications (a total of 13 meetings). Schedule can be seen below.

RESTRUCTURING  INCOHERENT 

BELIEFS

This course comes with a WORKBOOK.

"Take home" exercises, as well as taking part in group discussions, are mandatory

Because places on the program are limited, mini interviews are conducted to join this course.

SCHEDULE

EVERY FRIDAY AT 12 noon CEST

May 31st, June 7th, June 14th, June 21st, June 28th, July 5th, July 12th, July 19th, July 26th, Aug 2nd, Aug 9th, Aug 16th, Aug 23rd

SOURCES OF YOUR LEARNT MECHANISMS

5

PLACING LEARNT MECHANISMS IN CONTEXT OF WHO YOU ARE NOW

6

ANCHOR POINTS FOR LETTING GO OF LEARNT MECHANISMS

7

FACING THE PARTNER IN THE MIRROR/ CO-DEPENDANCY CONCEPTS

8

CALCULATING EXPECTATIONS VS. REALITY USING COGNITIVE PRINCIPLES

9

EMOTIONAL AWARENESS IN THE FACE OF FIRE

10

TECHNIQUES FOR DEALING WITH WOUNDED SELF

11

VIEWING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH NEW LENS

12

CURRENT RELATIONSHIP ASSOCIATIONS

1

 VALUES IN RELATIONSHIPS

2

CONCEPT OF THE CONFLICT MAP

3

 PATTERNS IN YOUR CONFLICT MANAGEMENT

4

Benefits when you join this program

Feel at home by being part of a small group of people working on the same issues, and sharing their expeirences.

Work with me for a period of 3 months

Join meetings from the comfort of your home

All our meetings will be recorded so if you miss a meeting, you have a chance to catch up.

And ofcourse

this means that you get to look forward to understanding yourself better, how you've been  possibly sabotaging your previous (or current) relationships and finally, how to use this understanding of yourself in navigating the world of  conflict management in relationships.

Join this program 

AT AN INTRODUCTORY PRICE OF ONLY

$ 125

Which equates to 13 sessions (3 months) at $9.62 per session.

That's incredibly low per session, don't you think?

Prices do not include VAT, which is determined based on the user's billing country. The final price will be shown, before payment is completed.

Step 1

CONTACT ME

Let me know that you're interested in the program. I'll send you a form to fill out and a date for a short 10-minute interview.

Step 2

INTERVIEW

We'll chat about your previous experiences, and why you are interested in this program. We'll also talk about your commitment level at this point of joining.

Step 3

PAYMENT

I'll send you a secure PayPal link to pay for the course. Once you have paid, you will receive an email confirmation that you are booked for the course, as well as the direct link to the call on the scheduled date.

Step 4

SHOW UP 

You'll be added to a private group where you can access information, workbooks, and other free reading material relating to this program.  And then, all you need to do is show up =) 

Registration closes on May 25th, 2019 

I want to join this program

I want to always make my programs available to those who are financially bound because I believe transforming ourselves in not just for those who can afford. 

On every program, I offer two scholarship places through an application process. 

The application requires you to be honest and transparent about your situation. 

In certain cases, we may decide that a trade of services might be good.

To get started on the application, please contact me.

OUR SCHOLARSHIP PROGRAM