WIRED FOR LOVE
Finding and keeping a healthy romantic relationship through understanding the psychology behind love
I use to wonder why no one educated us
ON WHAT IT TOOK TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
And so, like you, I found myself navigating a complex area with minimum support.
RESTRUCTURING MY BELIEFS
TWIN FLAME PRACTICES
COURSES THAT TAUGHT ME HOW TO “PLAY THE GAME”
But nothing brought me the understanding and context I was looking for...
I became a therapist and started working to help people improve their relationship through different psychological principles that were clear, easy and made total sense!
I'm a therapist based in the Netherlands, a previous University Lecturer and a best selling co-author.
I designed this program based on what I deliver in personal therapy sessions.
In my personal consult, 80% of clients experience frustration, anxiety and depression because they cannot "attract" the right partner. A common thread is that they do not understand how they are uniquely wired for relationships based on their individual life experiences. This is one of the most important elements in relationship theory because it helps you to understand how you form bonds, how you expect closeness to be developed, when and how you are triggered, and things that you do that potentially pushes love away.
Healthy and harmonious relationships are a function of two individuals working on themselves. YES. But I'm also a firm believer in working on yourself by understanding how your relationship expectations are shaped, and what to do about them.
I believe that this program can 100% change the way you see your romantic relationships and can help you “fill the gaps” of what you have been missing.
So let's work together.
I look forward to seeing you on the program.
WIRED FOR LOVE
Starts Jan 21st, 2021.
Registration closes Jan 10th, 2021
This program will help you significantly understand and shift your understanding of how you are specifically wired for a relationship. You will learn about the ways in which your "wired-ness" determine your behavior and attitudes, what your needs are, and people who might compliment your specific relationship style . You'll have chance to reflect on past relationships that didn't work and see, in a new light, why both you and that person thought and acted in the way you both did. Finally you'll examine what your triggers are, how they become activated and what to do. All of this work is grounded in sound psychological theory- which means, it is analogous to attending couples therapy.
There are 12 core buckets, that means we'll be meeting once per week, online, for 3 months (a total of 12 meetings)
* See schedule of dates below*
Including the misconception behind why some people “click”
How your experiences have shaped your subconscious and how that is related to how you connect with romantic partners
You’ll learn which connection mechanisms/styles of attachment predict success
Learn the principles involved in pairing
two bonding styles
Learn what happens when your style is activated
Behaviors that can sabotage your relationship based on your triggers and unique style.
Learning to quickly decipher what relationships will work and what will not , based on your style.
Learn about red flags that is often displayed by different bonding styles.
Learn how you unconsciously push love away and strategies that can help you to deactivate your triggers
Even if you are matched with someone who matches your style, problems will arise. Learn how to decipher these problems and prevent certain roadblocks
Learn to tell the signs of when a relationship has run its course and when you are potentially in a trap
Communication strategies based on your style
TRIGGERS ASSOCIATED WITH YOUR CONNECTING STYLE
PROTEST BEHAVIOR WHEN YOUR STYLE IS TRIGGERED
FINDING THAT RELATIONSHIP THAT WORKS
RED FLAGS AND SIGNALS
NAVIGATING SPECIAL PROBLEMS THAT CAN ARISE
HOW TO TELL IF YOU ARE TRAPPED IN A TOXIC BOND
COMMUNICATION STYLES BASED ON YOUR STYLE
THE ANATOMY OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
THE SUBCONSCIOUS & HOW YOU CONNECT WITH OTHERS
CONNECTION MECHANISMS THAT PREDICT RELATION SUCCESS
GOLDEN PRINCIPLES CONNECTING STYLES
All training will be held on Thursdays at 5pm Amsterdam time
Begins Jan 21st Ends April 8th
This course will be held online via ZOOM. This means that every meeting will be recorded, so that if you miss a session, you have a chance to go back and look at the material.
Benefits when you join this program
Feel at home by being part of a small group of people working on the same issues, and sharing their expeirences.
Work with me for a period of 3 months (It’s like having therapy without paying the cost of therapy for 3 months. One therapy session with me cost 90 euros****
Join meetings from the comfort of your home
All our meetings will be recorded so if you miss a meeting, you have a chance to catch up.
this means that you get to look forward to understanding yourself better, how you've been sabotaging your previous (or current) relationships and finally, how to use this understanding of yourself in navigating the world of "finding a partner"